Studies show it will take at least three years of grieving in order to begin again. I feel it takes even more time and is very individualized. As long as one isn't hurting themselves or others ... there isn't a reason to know how long emotions connected with losing a loved one may last. One honestly doesn't need to deal with expectations of the number of days.
It is common knowledge that grief comes in stages...if only it were that simple, so
cut and dried. It comes in waves and whispers...at times so obvious and others
quite obscure. It can limit you, yet at the other times protect you from the expectations of
those around you....long enough for you to find yourself again.
One day the grip begins to loosen ... new chances, new relationships and new ways to live start to blossom.. all paramount in navigating tomorrows' paths. Some will become part of you, others will fall away...but all are intriguing and motivating you to move forward in your life journey carrying your loved ones who have gone ahead in your heart to brighten your days.
Jodi H. Underhill MEd. LMHC Licensed Mental Health Counselor License #MH9166 Phone: 386.747.7148 http://therapists.psychologytoday.com/rms/61944
